Sex and money. These are the most deleterious topics of disagreements in relationships. While most couples argue with each other about topics such as who does chores, how much to involve the in-laws in their life, and how much time is spent together, those couples who tend to fight more about sex and those who often fight about money are the most likely to divorce and to feel dissatisfied in their relationship.

Many reasons have little to do with the relationship itself that might lead couples to fight. For instance, financial stress or stressors such as being laid off or having trouble making ends meet are more likely to lead to fighting about money. When partners have different views on money, perhaps seeing money as a way to ensure future security versus a way to experience life to the fullest are also more likely to fight about finances than couples in which partners share the same view on money.

Fear and anxiety are often used interchangeably, but they have distinct characteristics. Fear is a primal response to a present, identifiable threat. It's a short-term, intense emotional state that triggers the fight-or-flight response, preparing us to face danger. Imagine encountering a snake on a hike – your heart races, your senses sharpen, and you take immediate action (flight) to avoid harm. This is healthy fear, keeping us safe.

Anxiety, on the other hand, is a more generalized feeling of worry or apprehension about a future, potential threat. It's often vague and lacks a clear trigger. You might feel anxious about an upcoming presentation, a looming deadline, or even hypothetical situations. While some anxiety can be motivating, chronic or excessive anxiety can disrupt daily life.

Positive affirmations are short statements that aim to challenge negative thoughts and promote feelings of confidence, self-worth, and optimism. By repeating them regularly, the aim is to gradually shift your inner narrative and cultivate a more positive mindset. Positive affirmations can be a helpful tool to manage anxiety. They work by reframing negative thoughts and promoting feelings of calm and self-belief. Here are some examples you can use:

Spring's arrival brings a wave of optimism – blossoming flowers, warmer days, and a sense of renewal. However, daylight savings can disrupt our internal clock and negatively impact mental well-being. Losing an hour of sleep can disrupt our natural sleep-wake cycles, leading to fatigue, irritability, and a dip in mood.

Fortunately, nature offers a potent antidote. Here's how to harness the power of nature to navigate this transition smoothly and enhance your mental health.

Social anxiety is characterized by an intense and persistent fear of being watched, judged, or scrutinized by others in social situations. This fear can lead to significant distress and impairment in daily life, affecting work, school, relationships, and other activities.

Here are some self-help techniques to help you manage and cope with social anxiety.

Have you ever swiped right on someone seemingly perfect, only to find yourself stuck in a digital purgatory of endless texts and calls with zero commitment? Welcome to the frustrating world of "penpalling," a modern dating trend where someone showers you with attention online but never takes the step to meet in person.

Sound familiar? If you're tired of virtual connections that lead nowhere, this post is for you. Let's shed light on this sneaky behavior and empower you to break free from the "pen-pal" trap.

Perfectionism. It's a word often worn as a badge of honor, yet it can silently shackle us, breeding anxiety, procrastination, and even self-loathing. But what exactly is it, and how can we escape its clutches? Today, we delve into the world of perfectionism, understanding its roots and equipping ourselves with tools to break free and embrace progress over flawlessness.

Panic attacks can be an incredibly difficult and scary experience. Below are some tips that may be helpful in managing a panic attack in the moment as well as strategies for reducing their frequency in the long-term. Please note that these tips are not a substitute for professional help, and if you're struggling with frequent or severe panic attacks, please reach out to a qualified mental health professional.

Feeling like life is spiraling out of control? You're not alone. In this thought-provoking article from Psychology Today, we delve into the unsettling possibility that dysfunctionality has crept into the very fabric of modern life. From gridlocked political systems to the daily grind of navigating complex bureaucracies, the author argues that we're increasingly surrounded by chaos, breeding a sense of despair and overwhelm.

Distorted thinking patterns are exaggerated or inaccurate ways of thinking that can lead to negative emotions and self-defeating behaviors. These patterns can make it difficult to see things realistically and can contribute to anxiety, depression, and other mental health problems.